The Agoge
The Agoge Brotherhood Retreat
The Agoge Brotherhood Retreat
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The Agoge Brotherhood Retreat – Surf City, NC
Conquer your limits.
This is not a men’s retreat for guys who need motivation.
It’s for men who’ve been carrying responsibility for a long time and know something has to change.
If you’re a husband, a father, a business owner, a leader…
If you’ve built a life that looks solid on the outside but feels heavy on the inside…
If you’ve been grinding, providing, and pushing forward without ever stopping to ask why…
This retreat was built for you.
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Location
Surf City, NC
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Dates
July 23-26, 2026
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Arrival
July 23, 2026
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Departure
July 26, 2026
Accommodations
Robust lodging that serves as your fortress while you undertake this transformative journey. Minutes from the beach and fully equipped with a pool, hot tub, and sauna.
Why This Retreat?
What This Weekend Actually Does
This is a 4-day reset designed to help you:
- Get honest about where you are
- Strip away the noise, ego, and distraction
- Reconnect to your body, your values, and your direction
- Leave with clarity, not hype about how you’re living the next chapter of your life
You won’t be yelled at.
You won’t be broken down for the sake of intensity.
And you won’t leave fired up with no plan.
You will be challenged, supported, and held to a higher standard—by men who are walking the same road.
What’s Included
Lodging
You’ll stay together under one roof. Tight quarters by design.
Because isolation is part of the problem—and proximity builds trust.
Food & Fuel
Three meals a day. Grass-fed, organic meat from Colorado Craft Beef.
Prepared together. Eaten together. No distractions.
Physical Stress, Done With Purpose
- Grappling
- Loaded movement and hikes
- Sauna and cold exposure
These aren’t punishments.
They’re tools to:
- Regulate your nervous system
- Build resilience
- Teach you how you respond under pressure
The work is physicalbut the insight comes afterward.
Deep Personal Work
This is where the real change happens.
You’ll:
- Identify the experiences that shaped you
- Expose the beliefs that have been running your decisions
- Confront the patterns that no longer serve you
- Reclaim ownership of your direction as a man
This isn’t therapy, it’s responsibility.
Brotherhood
No posturing. No peacocking. No pretending.
Just men who:
- Have built lives
- Have taken hits
- And are done doing this alone
The bonds formed here don’t end on Sunday.
What’s Included
Lodging
You’ll stay together under one roof. Tight quarters by design.
Because isolation is part of the problem—and proximity builds trust.
Food & Fuel
Three meals a day. Grass-fed, organic meat from Colorado Craft Beef.
Prepared together. Eaten together. No distractions.
Physical Stress, Done With Purpose
- Grappling
- Loaded movement and hikes
- Sauna and cold exposure
These aren’t punishments.
They’re tools to:
- Regulate your nervous system
- Build resilience
- Teach you how you respond under pressure
The work is physicalbut the insight comes afterward.
Deep Personal Work
This is where the real change happens.
You’ll:
- Identify the experiences that shaped you
- Expose the beliefs that have been running your decisions
- Confront the patterns that no longer serve you
- Reclaim ownership of your direction as a man
This isn’t therapy, it’s responsibility.
Brotherhood
No posturing. No peacocking. No pretending.
Just men who:
- Have built lives
- Have taken hits
- And are done doing this alone
The bonds formed here don’t end on Sunday.
What You Leave With
Men consistently leave with:
- Mental clarity they haven’t felt in years
- A renewed sense of purpose
- A grounded plan for the next 12 months of their life
- Brotherhood they actually stay connected to
- The confidence that comes from alignment—not ego
Not louder.
Not tougher.
Clearer.
This Is For You If:
- You feel stuck despite doing “everything right”
- You’re tired of surface-level men’s events
- You want depth without softness
- You want strength without bullshit
- You want to lead your family and life from a grounded place—not exhaustion
This Is Not For You If:
- You’re looking for a motivational high
- You don’t want to be challenged
- You’re not willing to look inward
- You want comfort more than growth